Hello Friends,

The person you are, or rather the person you believe yourself to be, only exists because of the evidence you have collected.

They exist because of the programming, beliefs, thoughts, patterns, coping mechanisms, and cycles that have become the evidence you use to support the person you believe you are.

The process of healing, self-actualization, or evolution is about creating and collecting new evidence that supports the identity of the person you want to be.

Even as that evidence occurs, our subconscious mind negates it. Tells us that it is a fluke, hands us impostor syndrome on a silver platter, and has us return to our place, crushed under the weight of our ambition.

Most people wait until they have a new identity to collect evidence of it, but this is not the same dilemma as the chicken and the egg.

There will never be a new identity without the evidence of it first.

Collecting evidence is not something new you need to learn. You have been doing it unconsciously your whole life. That is why you are who you believe yourself to be.

The only thing you must change is taking the evidence collection OFF autopilot.

This is how we begin the process of reclaiming and reprogramming our subconscious.

It is a manual process at first, where imposter syndrome runs wild and your ego digs its heels in, telling you that you are faking it, until you make it.

You have always been faking it.

You feel like an impostor because you are an impostor, but the shift is…

You have always BEEN an impostor.

You just got so used to playing the role (and playing it well) that you forgot you've been faking it your whole life. You have the evidence to support the impostor.

Now it is time to collect new evidence… here is what that looks like.

Collecting Evidence Exercise

I want you to take a piece of paper and on one side of the paper write

[Your Name] 2.0 (You can also use a nickname, for example, I went from Gregory to Grisha. Grisha was my evolution)

I want you to list 3-5 qualities of yourself you would like to have, things you would like to do, or the person you want to be.

Don't make this such a long list where you overwhelm yourself. Make it actionable and within your reach, not some vague, far-off goal.

Write them as if you already are or already do these things.

Here are some examples:

• I meditate at least once a day
• I go to the gym at least twice a week
• I go for a 30-minute walk three times a week
• I choose reading over social media once a day
• I charge my phone in another room
• I post at least one piece of content a week
• I write first thing in the morning for 30 minutes
• I am more present throughout the day.

You purposefully want to make these easy and obtainable.

Don't focus on the outcome right now, we don't care if we lose weight, gain followers, become enlightened, or achieve our hopes and wildest dreams.

All we care about right now is collecting evidence.

Flip the paper over.

On this side, I want you to write the date for a week

So, from May 6th until May 13th, followed by Evidence Collected

Leave this sheet on your desk, by your bed, anywhere it is constantly and consistently visible.

At the end of each day, I want you to start a ritual, 10-15 minutes sitting in front of this paper and reflecting on what evidence you collected that supports your new identity.

Why This Works and What To Avoid

Do not use this as another way to shame yourself for not stepping up.

You are running an experiment, and in an experiment, anything that goes wrong is data collected.

Data collected further informs research and is not against a desired outcome, but a redirection towards it.

Simply notice.

Notice the patterns, the energy of new vs. old evidence, and your subconscious programming fighting back.

Start looking at everything as evidence.

The things you used to be ashamed of that you believed made you unlovable, unworthy, and useless.

It is just evidence of a version of you that you are outgrowing, that no longer exists, and that never truly existed or was you.

The things that bring you pride, joy, a sense of accomplishment, that you look at your list and write down how you supported this new identity today…

Evidence of your new self.

The Bucket Of Self-Worth

Self-efficacy is your belief in your ability to execute actions to achieve specific goals or handle situations.

Your self-worth is directly connected to your self-efficacy, and every time you collect evidence that supports this new version of you…

You increase your self-efficacy, which increases your self-worth, which increases your conviction in this new version of yourself.

This is the journey of learning to trust yourself. Our self-trust goes up when we do what we need to do and avoid doing what we know harms us.

The more self-trust and conviction you have, the more you can tap into your inner knowing.

Tap into and exist from your intuition, a powerful frequency that empowers your desired reality and inevitably leads to its materialization.

This is the essence of alchemy.

Let me know what evidence you plan to collect this upcoming week. I respond to every email.

Best of luck to you on your journey, my friend.

With from and for Love,

Grisha

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